Let's workshop this poem that contrasts the disturbing visual of a mishandled burial with a pro-bono priest's gender-neutral funeral rites, language that family members find quite jarring
Purple-Haired Prayer
We easily forget
the stark vision of her
being all contorted up
inside the casket now
(one of the diggers
having let the rope slip
while easing Granny
into her new hole)—
each ghastly thud
buried by the priest
(pro-bono): “Let the Lord
protect zir as ze . . .”
“We need books that affect us like a disaster, that grieve us deeply, like the death of someone we loved more than ourselves, like being banished into forests far from everyone, like a suicide. A book must be the axe for the frozen sea within us.”—Kafka (against the safe-space cancel culture pushed by anti-art bullies, left and right).